Next myth to be busted: why men don’t go out with “curvy” women. Which is why I’ve helped thousands of people rebrand and market themselves successfully online over the past nine years.
Well, you touched on it yourself, Nicci, in your email. Women know that men prefer thin, so they adjust their descriptions accordingly. Better photos, better essays, better usernames, better email technique.
I swear to God, I have heard this complaint every single day for nearly a decade. So let’s play the game I play with my clients on the phone: : Then why would you expect the percentage to be any higher online?
If, by definition, 95% of men are wrong for you, it should be expected that many will be unemployed, uneducated, older and inappropriate. They’re allowed to take a crack at you, and you’re allowed to ignore them. Focus on what you can control – YOU – and let go of what you can’t – MEN.
The good news, Nicci, is that all of the answers can be derived from the same exact technique – flipping things over to consider the other person’s point of view.
It wasn’t an easy process, but I eventually reached a point where it all made sense and all my questions and confusions suddenly evaporated.
Fortunately, I’m not the selfish type and am more than happy to share everything I’ve learned.
Men are still largely going to prefer young, thin women.
Women are still going to prefer tall, successful men.